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Post by carmen on Jan 17, 2008 21:04:13 GMT -5
Ohmydeargoshness. Life really sucks right now! There's a good chance most people don't really care why, but letting it out is a good way to calm down...or so I hear. Whatever. All of this may sound really stupid, but it is a super big deal to me. Okay like it's mainly to do with friends. Right now they kinda suck. This one friend, let's call her Jane, she bothers me to the point of, well...EVERYTHING. Jane and I have have been friends for four or five years, and she's changed SO much. It's not even funny. She doesn't even seem like the girl that I knew four years ago. She's a lot LESS mature, and she developed quite a big ego. Just because she has good grades and crap she thinks she's suddenly the center of everyone's attention. Maybe I'm just jealous or whatever, but she always talks about how all of the guys in our class are always staring at her, and how all the guys worship the ground she walks on. Ugh. She like...how can I put this nicely...she doesn't have the greatest complexion, and her hair looks like she was attacked with a weed whacker. Sorry if that just sounded really mean, but it's kinda true. But she's always saying bragging about the newest guy that she thinks likes her. Lately she's been blabbing so much lately it's just horrible!
My other friend...um, Jill, well, she has a lot of problems. Okay so she just, more like at the beginning of the school year, starting going to the school I've been going to for two years, and Jill and I are practically best friends. So when we came to school after the end of summer, boy do I miss summer, I wanted to go see all of the friends that I haven't seen in months. But then Jill is all like, "Katie no! You have to help me!" and stuff like that. But I'm like, "Uhh one second." Because I really want to go see all of my friends, but she just wants to constantly be at my side. When I actually did start talking to some of my other friends, she pulled me away saying that she had to go back to our locker. Ugh, shared lockers suck! But no thanks to Jill, I've lost at least one of my really good friends that I used to hang out with like all of the time. But now we hardly even talk anymore. It sucks.
Sometimes friends just bug the living hell out of me. And right now all of my friends seem to have something going on in their life, especially Jill, but I won't go into her life, but if you really want to know PM me, because it's like seriously personal and I won't post it on here because I'm a better friend than that. But if Jill joins this site, which I told her that she should, I'm deleting this post. :]
But wow, it does feel good to vent. And that's hardly even half of the stuff in my life. Ahh well, I think I've rambled on enough for one night.
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Post by Lilyth Moss on Jan 17, 2008 23:09:48 GMT -5
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Post by carmen on Jan 17, 2008 23:31:10 GMT -5
And like the worst part is, I think she does it on purpose. I told her who I liked, and then like a week or so later, I over heard her talking to someone else, and she's like yeah, "Rj was totally flirting with me. I think he likes me." I swear she made sure that she said it lound enough so I could hear her. It really made me want to slap her in the face, but all of her 'boyfriends' would probably beat me up. |
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Post by Melrose Charmont on Jan 18, 2008 8:46:02 GMT -5
Mehrghh >.<
Like Eil, I know what you're going through. >.>
Unfortunately, that is.
One of my friends used to be like this, and I'm not going to say who. I've gone through the whole 'she knew I liked him, then she went and said something like 'omg, i think he likes me!'' and... it sucks >.< really. I was ranting about that for a good week or so... -pokes- just ask Eilee.
The only thing I can really really suggest you do is to talk to her about it. Be like, [[ ahaha i love cover-up names ]] "Jane, I told you I like RJ, right?" then see how she reacts, and if you hear her talking about him liking her again, confront her about it. Ask her if she likes RJ and tell her that you don't want to mess up your friendship with her, but you like him too. Yeah, sounds sort of like what a guidance councilor would say, but I ended up doing something similar ( only after a bunch of not-talking time ) and it worked out fairly well.
Then, if she decides to keep messing with who you like like she has been, I say eff the friendship. There's no reason whatsoever for you to have to take a backseat when it comes to Jane and guys you like. Trust me, I hate secretly liking a guy only to find out two days later that my friend suddenly does. Then I feel an obligation to not say how I feel and I end up just getting hurt worse.
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As for Jill, I suggest introducing her to your other friends. Try to hang out with all of them at the same time, and if she makes excuses so she doesn't have to get to know your other friends, tell her you want to talk to your other friends for a while; that you'll catch up with her later or something. Hopefully she won't feel like you ditched her or anything, but technically you wouldn't have if you try to include her in the first place.
>.>
friend problems suck
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Post by Samson Harris on Jan 18, 2008 11:48:48 GMT -5
Ummm, I'm sorry that you guys have many friend issues. I can't say I do. I have a smallish group of friends and I get along really well with them all. And then my best friends are amazing. And I've actually gotten closer to one of them. She's been super open lately and talks to me about everything, it's so awesome. I think she likes the fact that she (she's gay by the way) can talk about her relationships to me (As far as I know, I'm straight). It's really awesome. So, right now everything is going great.
I hope things work out for you three.
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